Terms of Endearment,
starring Shirly Maclaine, Debra Winger, Jack Nicholson,
Danny DeVito, John Lithgow, and Jeff Daniels, was
released in 1983. In this movie, Emma (Winger)
both loves and despises here mother, Aurora (Maclaine).
The two fear losing each other after the daughter moves
away and then comes down with cancer. The movie is
about their relationship as they deal with the illness.